六十四卦 / 第 6 卦
讼
Heaven up, water down: two forces facing away. Stop mid-way and you profit; fight it to the end and you lose. Find an intermediary.
乾(Heaven)上 · 坎(Water)下
火宫 · 游魂卦 · 世4应1
有孚窒惕,中吉,终凶。利见大人,不利涉大川。
象曰:天与水违行,讼;君子以作事谋始。
象曰:天与水违行,讼;君子以作事谋始。
争到底没有赢家,能停就停。
讼是天往上、水往下,两股力量背道而驰。占到讼,几乎可以直接翻译成「你正在一场纠纷里」。卦辞的判断非常冷静:「中吉,终凶」——中途停下来还有好处,打到最后一定伤。又给了一条路:「利见大人」,找第三方调停比自己硬碰强。
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行 动
- 能和解就和解,哪怕让一点
- 找中间人,别自己直接对线
- 争的东西先算一下真实价值,大部分不值得
English reading
Heaven up, water down: two forces facing away. Stop mid-way and you profit; fight it to the end and you lose. Find an intermediary.
conflictdisputemediation
六 爻 辞
初六
不永所事,小有言,终吉。
初爻(阴)
九二
不克讼,归而逋,其邑人三百户,无眚。
二爻(阳)
六三
食旧德,贞厉,终吉。
三爻(阴)
九四
不克讼,复即命渝,安贞吉。
四爻(阳)
九五
讼元吉。
五爻(阳)
上九
或锡之鞶带,终朝三褫之。
上爻(阳)
八 宫 装 卦
以本宫五行为「我」,排出纳甲干支、六亲、世应与六神。起卦解卦用的就是这张表。
| 六神 | 六亲 | 爻位 | 干支 | 五行 | 世应 |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 玄武 | 子孙 | 上九 | 壬戌 | 土 | |
| 白虎 | 妻财 | 九五 | 壬申 | 金 | |
| 螣蛇 | 兄弟 | 九四 | 壬午 | 火 | 世 |
| 勾陈 | 兄弟 | 六三 | 戊午 | 火 | |
| 朱雀 | 子孙 | 九二 | 戊辰 | 土 | |
| 青龙 | 父母 | 初六 | 戊寅 | 木 | 应 |
同宫近卦
1
乾
Six unbroken lines. Pure momentum, and the only danger is your own excess. Take the lead, but choose your moment — the top line is where dragons regret flying too high.
4
蒙
A spring under a mountain, still finding its channel. You are the student here — or the teacher who must stop repeating themselves. Asking is the whole method.
7
师
Water hidden in the earth: force organised into a body. Set the rules before you march. Put the right person in command, not the most available one.
10
履
Treading on the tiger's tail without being bitten. Position and manners are the entire safety system here. Move, but check the reaction at each step.
12
否
Heaven rising away from earth. Communication is severed. Contract, stay quiet, and wait — the blockage breaks on its own at the extreme.
13
同人
Fire rising toward heaven — people aligned to a shared purpose. Seek them in the open, not inside your own clan; a small circle narrows the field.